When I am sitting at the computer, I always wonder what would make a good post. Now, some would say just write something. I have always had a hard time with that! I need focus and purpose behind what I write. There is no reason why I think that, I just do. My friend Amy wrote today about finding what to post about and it made me think. I always have a good idea when driving or trying to fall asleep at night. My mind will race with ideas, but come writing time I am stumped. I know my little ole blog is pretty random, but I still get stuck. When something comes to mind, it is either all about Micah, too controversial, boring, or just silly.

So, I have started to work on that. One way I am trying to solve the problem is just to write and see what comes out. Another solution will be an idea list that I will keep nearby to scribble on when the lightbulb flashes in my brain. So, there you have it. Now, time to figure what I just said!

I have been pondering a lot lately about the role of a wife and mother. My thoughts have been influenced by readings I have had lately and prayer. Have you considered the change that has happened in society that “expects” a woman to work outside the home? I know that staying home is accepted, but it doesn’t seem to be the norm or priority in most households today. Why? I am not really sure and I am having a hard time with this.

Jonathan and I chose this for our family because I wanted to be there with my children each day and to provide a haven for our family. I feel like this is God’s desire for our family. Many would say that it must be nice, but it would never work for them. What wouldn’t work? People talk about income a lot when reasoning why the wife is working outside the home. While I understand it is difficult to have everything with one income, should we have it all? We have learned to sacrifice certain things and yet we still have so much and can enjoy treats and vacations. We just have to live frugally and within our means.

I’m sure I will be writing about this more in the future, but for now… I am still pondering I guess. What does the Bible have to say about all this? I have a general idea, but I am afraid it isn’t very politically correct. I think I am about to open a can of worms soon…and I am pretty sure once they are out, I can’t cram them back in.

I will be the first to tell you I have NO idea how to do anything in photoshop. I would love to take a class someday. Jonathan uses it every once in a while, but his uses are different from what I really want to learn. I want to make my photography appear as though I completely know what I am doing. Yep, I want to make my pictures purty!

So, I have been experimenting with the help of The Pioneer Woman. She has these cool actions that make her gorgeous photos into WOW! So, I thought before Mother’s Day I ought to give them a try. If they turn out neat, I might give the grandmas a special treat. Tell me what you think! I am really curious about this. I am trying out stuff, but i am not quite sure which stuff to try right now, so….. here’s a sample.

SOOC (straight out of camera) Lovely and Ethereal and Boost actions

Does he look like a cartoon now??? I am having a hard time seeing the “improvement”. Any thoughts?? Isn’t it too dark??